adolescent health questions & Experts answers
During adolescence, it's common to experience a range of emotions, attractions, and explorations as part of normal identity development. Same-sex attractions or feelings during this phase are common among adolescents. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you will grow up into a homosexual / gay adult.
As a teenager with your growth, you will also develop an identity for yourself. This development of identity involves:
1. Exploration: Trying out different identities, roles, and relationships.
2. Experimentation: Testing boundaries and experiencing new emotions and attractions.
3. Fluidity: Embracing change and uncertainty as part of growth.
As a teenaged boy if you feel attracted to another male, it can be a:
1. Transient phase: A temporary exploration of emotions and attractions.
2. Normal variant: A common aspect of adolescent development.
3. Part of self-discovery: Understanding oneself and one's emotions.
It's essential to remember that:
1. Sexual attraction towards a particular gender is complex and multifaceted.
2. Labels might not always fit or be permanent.
3. Identity including sexual identity can change over time.
If you're experiencing same-sex attractions, remember:
1. You're not alone. Many people go through similar experiences.
2. Take your time. Explore your feelings and identity without pressure.
3. Talk to trusted adults, professionals, or support groups.
Some people may still identify as homosexual, or another label after exploration. This identity can be temporary and eventually fade away as you grow.
The Adolescent Medicine Team,
Department of Child health,
CMC Vellore-632004
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